How has your life perspective changed from your experiences in Cambodia and Tanzania?
A lot of people say the hardest part of this kind of experience is coming home. It’s very easy to look at our society and say it’s very wasteful and superficial, but you have to be realistic and accept this is the life that we were born into. I think for most people, including myself, when you get back from a trip like that, you go through stages where you look at what’s around you and think, what I could do for people in Tanzania with that money? But, you do have to get to a place where you don’t forget and you try to help, but you also have to be realistic and say, this is our society and culture.
So how have you adapted to coming back home to Australia?
To avoid that reverse culture shock, I was very careful to come back to what was basically my previous life – my previous job, my previous town, my previous friends – and I’ve found that has made it a lot easier to integrate. I was working again within six days of returning. A lot of people I know have had three months off which just gives more time to think about how much you loved living overseas. I also keep myself quite involved in fws. It’s a fine line between being too involved and trying not to micro-manage, but assisting the people on the ground there.
Do you think you’ll settle for the white picket fence one day?
I’m sure I’ll settle for some version of it. I met my partner, Erin, in Tanzania, and she’s American. It feels like we’ll have multiple homes here in Australia, the US and back in Tanzania, so who knows where the white picket fence will end up.What we’ve lived and
What we’ve lived and travelled through in Africa is something we’d never be able to turn our backs on, not to mention my experiences in Cambodia. I’m not sure exactly where those experiences fit in terms of our future life, but I’m sure the combination of the US, Australia and a few other places will feature. It looks like, at least for a while, we’ll be moving around.
What we’ve lived and travelled through in Africa is something we’d never be able to turn our backs on, not to mention my experiences in Cambodia. I’m not sure exactly where those experiences fit in terms of our future life, but I’m sure the combination of the US, Australia and a few other places will feature. It looks like, at least for a while, we’ll be moving around.
Where do you think your next adventure is?
I’m still very committed to what’s happening in Kesho Leo and I’ll hope to get back there for a stint. At some stage I’d like to get into professional development. You can’t afford to volunteer forever, but I’d like to take the grass roots skills that I learnt and work in emergency relief. That would just create a whole new set of challenges. I mean, Tanzania is relatively stable compared to what I could end up in.
And where to next for fws? Is there a view to going into other communities after this one is done?
Everything that we do is done in a very planned way. Our first job is to consolidate what we are doing at Kesho Leo. We know it’s going to take time, but we want to avoid that stereotype of setting something up and going, “Sweet, job well done”, dusting off our hands and walking off.
There are a few different paths that we could take. I think that we’ll probably lean towards extending that ripple in the pond effect. I’d like to see us do another project, maybe 50 km away from Kesho Leo. I have no doubt that fws will keep growing from strength to strength; it’s just a question of whether that path will take us to other countries or settle us in Tanzania for a while where we’ve got contacts, where we know the language and how things work.
If you were to give advice to anyone wanting to pursue a path like yours, what would you say?
I’d say, give it a go. It’s certainly not for everyone, but if the calling is there you are almost being unfair on yourself if you don’t respond to it. Try to live somewhere else at least for a month; that’s how it started for me. I think it gives you that extra outlook that could change your life.